Same old feeling, different people, same old song, different lyrics, "I want you to want me" could it ever be so simple?The time of life you spent with your friends and family is the time you tend to cherish more.... the time with your "other bit" is when you scrutinise every look or phonecall or even a glance at the next girl because you want to tell "friends and family" when he started cheating. Esentially point i'm trying to drive home is that ; we more often than not forget to enjoy the time spent and spend it well, we fail to comprehend things that we perhaps even do not have the mind capacity to get. We cometimes look for every wrong thing in your partner, the way he looks at you , is it any different from the way he looks at your brother? Or your friends, Or your siblings?its actually strange because you want the other person to look at you great and see others as trash! then again "it makes ME happy". it is the simple things that kill or sometimes even make relationships. it is barely to understand someone's insecurities and work, somehow, around them. how many of us are so lucky as to know and understand or be understood by our better bits to a point of accepting everything about us?some of us have our scripts printed out, from the very first time we meet out very first partner we have it laid out right in front of us that even years after we still dance to the same beat, just because we haven't the sense to change course and change inevitably, the result. we get so set in our ways that not even a heartbreak can set us free, not even a warning can scare us that no one person can save us from ourselves. the thing with our ways is that the familiarity of the path, the highs we experience and the bitter lows are somewhat what we look forward to.
so it doesn't matter how many times one changes the player the only thing that truly matters is changing the script otherwise it will be as it is. there will be a single script ofyour life and every single time you can tell the outcome unless you put it upon yourself that while changing the players even the script is changed as well.. just for that brand new slate we're always asking for.
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