I am wiser now, I no better now, there are tragedies have witnessed however small in other eyes in mine they have been epic. Learning about love,peace and hope for me has been centrerd around tolerance, sacrifice and a special kind of sacrice. whta am I doing so wrong to continue to disappoint and get disappointed in love and in life and even in friendships? experiences in my life have been quiet but catastrophic in their own way but because I am of goodness and love still forge on.
Insanity has been rightly desribed as "repeating the same ation but expecting different results" in my quest to get away from insanity I removed myself and my emotions when finding a partner, I learnt about love with no overshadows of sex and the blinding insecurities of beauty and worth, instead I learnt about peace of mind, about hope, patience tolerance respect and above all this learnt that without all these, there is no chance at all for love.
What then am I saying about love? that sometimes to get back her worth, a woman needs to let a man chase her court her with dignity. she needs to learn to accept compliments, she needs to sit out a cheque at the restaurant and that door better be open for her. a woman need not go after a man she believes she loves but rather allow a suitor who adores her to display that adroation in her life, why? because those that we choose for ourselves don't enjoy the pursuit because we short circuit it, but those that are allowed a chance those are the ones that get to learn in detail our thoughts, our hopes, our fears. the beauty about being a woman is that once a man is attentive enough to you, we can't help but feel a loving closeness to him.
A man chases,let him chase u endlessly into complete bliss. he needs it for his excited nature knows no different. give him a chance to court you, to find different ways to please you. don't let anyone tell you different, a woman needs to be adored, needs for her wounds to be tetended to. She needs to be loved held appreciated respectd because she gives all of these everyday. She deserves to endlessly be treated like royalty...for she is from an endless line of royals.
3 comments:
Its lyk u feel my thoughts,feelings nd emotions nd ur words jst encourage me nt 2settle jst 4 any1 coz um royalty so shld be treated as so
peace of mind, about hope, patience tolerance respect and above all this learnt that without all these, there is no chance at all for love...totally agree. Esp
peace of mind, without it then paranoia takes over and there won't be trust
I learnt about love with no overshadows of sex and the blinding insecurities of beauty and worth, instead I learnt about peace of mind, about hope, patience tolerance respect and above all this learnt that without all these, there is no chance at all for love..."hmmm bebe actually um very very PROUD of you, on point statement i must say.."
a woman need not go after a man she believes she loves but rather allow a suitor who adores her to display that adroation in her life, why? because those that we choose for ourselves don't enjoy the pursuit because we short circuit it, but those that are allowed a chance those are the ones that get to learn in detail our thoughts, our hopes, our fears. the beauty about being a woman is that once a man is attentive enough to you, we can't help but feel a loving closeness to him..."i could only agree more, well said, u done-did me proud.."
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