July 8, 2008

ties

friendships and other ties have a way of ending on a very unexpected way, while for some we fight and part, some we just grow apart and well there is possibly some we just lose contact and of course there is some that will simply disappear noetheless there is the most tragic, brace yourself, some who feel they are suddnely "better" than you. While this is rather sickening to imagine you have to admit that sometimes the burden is actually too much to carry and its nice to finally have one less friends to drag you to a mall you cant afford and make crazy schemes that will leave you broke for sure. Why do i say this is a tragedy? i've come to the realisation that someone's insecurities actually brings insecurities to people around them. You know sort of like how you use another's person's aura to your benefit when they are positive it also kind of rubs off on you. My point? well i'm trying to point out that, although people come in and out of lives however insignificant they may seem they are there for a purpose. some pretend to care for us, some do care, some obsess about our lives without even noticing some hurt us beyond measure and some make us feel warm and fuzzy inside. Well back to negative energy, have u noticed how people who always know something about some other person always has someone at their side giggling. It sometimes seems as though this person's happiness meets no limits. When you meet such a person they have a tendency of amking sure they say something about someone and somehow make you say,(yes!they tempt you.!!) things that you have either kept in you because you know that no good will come out of saying them OR you never really sat and thought it through. Somehow after this encounter you will find it comes and bites you in the hind. so our ties do eventually dictate who we are and what we will amount to as someone sais, "Know my friends, and you will know exactly who I am" meaning if im friends with everybody then you will never know me. Am i saying love your friends and hate the rest of the world? NO.! All I'm pointing is that, this is a kind of behaviour that breeds deceitful behaviour. For what will you discuss with your group one friends after you have met up with group 2 and 3? Ties, arent they ohh so important???

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